Wife is being drug tested for work... how screwed is she?

Maybe you should have used coke to get out of "elo hell" :P
No coke needed, just a new account and decent teammates. And clowns that follow people and try to be witty and harass them, like you just tried to do, is precisely why I didn't post my tag, thanks for proving my point and thanks for your input <3
 
Just for some reference.


Source, UK economist

Wanna see the actual number of deaths associated with each? yeah, alcohol being legal flies in the face of things like weed or coke or shrooms. Tobacco and coke are basically no different, one could go as far as coke actually being healthier due to not you know causing cancer and taking up massive amounts of medical resources for the community.
That's because a lot more people are drinking alcohol than doing coke.
 
I don't have an issue with it. My point is that terms like fun, party, common - are ignoring the fact that it's a highly unusual thing to do (for most). Depending on the where, how and who - it is also a dangerous thing to do for a number of reasons. As a result, I don't think normalizing is a good idea - particularly on a public forum like this.

So, it's not about shaming someone for doing it - but instead, the concern that so many people are laughing it off as a non-event.
Because to those people (myself included) being at a wild party and deciding to do a bump or three with celebs because of an "only live once' attitude is a non event.
 
That's completely irrelevant to your position though, which is one of unfounded disbelief. The substance isn't what's weird here, the weird part is you thinking how likely someone is to be telling the truth somehow depends on the substance in question.

You're going to be wrong a lot of people experiment with coke and other drugs. It's such a weird stance to take, I don't get it. You'd rather believe that everyone who says 'I tried coke once' is a habitual drug user based on absolutely nothing, than accept the reality that sometimes people experiment with drugs and don't take it any further.
To me it's not unfounded, it's almost like I may have life experiences that color my perspective on people claiming to never/rarely do drugs... naw, couldn't be that.

I don't think is's weird and I won't be changing my stance so don't bother trying to convince me otherwise. It's a waste of time.
 
To me it's not unfounded, it's almost like I may have life experiences that color my perspective on people claiming to never/rarely do drugs... naw, couldn't be that.

I don't think is's weird and I won't be changing my stance so don't bother trying to convince me otherwise. It's a waste of time.
1 in 3 adults will experiment with drugs at least once in their life. Your life experiences don't change the facts here. It's an extremely weird stance, you're calling people, who you know nothing about, liars for no reason other than just because you feel like it.
 
Was this during a party in Nakatomi Plaza?
You guys bring the coke, I'll bring the MP5, P7M13 and AUG A1(I only have a P7 and an AUG... sad face).

I think the guy who's saying coke can kill you on the first dose may be overreacting but still lmao at "we don't do drugs" followed by "did a few lines of cocaine". Absolutely no judgement here, but that's like a person saying they're super into JDM cars and not having a clue what you're talking about when you say Toyota Supra.
 
Just pay attention to threads like this or ones about sex more. They’ll tell you which people on this forum leans more right of center than they would ever admit to themselves
don't forget the ones about giant movie studios or phone companies
 
1 in 3 adults will experiment with drugs at least once in their life. Your life experiences don't change the facts here. It's an extremely weird stance, and a somewhat offensive one.
I'm not talking about facts is the part you're not getting. I'm talking about my opinion. No matter how many times you say weird it won't change what I'm saying. Take offense all you want, lol, for people doing drugs.
 
I'm not talking about facts is the part you're not getting. I'm talking about my opinion. No matter how many times you say weird it won't change what I'm saying. Take offense all you want, lol, for people doing drugs.
I'm not taking offence at people doing drugs, but at your belief that anyone who has tried a drug once is a liar and secretly a habitual drug user. It's incredibly judgemental and completely ignores the facts of reality. You need to be incredibly ignorant of real life to hold such an opinion when we know you are factually incorrect.
 
I'm not taking offence at people doing drugs, but at your belief that anyone who has tried a drug once is a liar and secretly a habitual drug user. It's incredibly judgemental and completely ignores the facts of reality. You need to be incredibly ignorant of real life to hold such an opinion when we know you are factually incorrect.
I am being judgemental get over it, hell I'm not even the only one doing it last couple pages. Maybe reply to one of them hoping to make a point, cause I already said you're wasting your time with me.

You must be incredibly naive to believe people who say they don't do drugs and then turn around talking about doing coke. But again that's just my take.
 
This is the most Resetera topic possible from the OP to the replies. Good browse to start the morning whilst making breakfast.

OP she'll be fine (it'll be urine test). Unless you give us information about drug addiction/money or health problems then ignore most of the moral panics going on in here. This forum is one of the most Conservative places on the internet at times.
 
I am being judgemental get over it, hell I'm not even the only one doing it last couple pages. Maybe reply to one of them hoping to make a point, cause I already said you're wasting your time with me.

You must be incredibly naive to believe people who say they don't do drugs and then turn around talking about doing coke. But again that's just my take.
It's not being naive, it's understanding reality. People experiment, they try things once or twice then don't try them again. That's a literal fact. Your take is incorrect. It's so, so weird that you would just choose to say the facts are wrong here.
 
This is the most Resetera topic possible from the OP to the replies. Good browse to start the morning whilst making breakfast.

OP she'll be fine (it'll be urine test). Unless you give us information about drug addiction/money or health problems then ignore most of the moral panics going on in here. This forum is one of the most Conservative places on the internet at times.
For real. And with the obstinate doubling and tripling down with refusal to accept reality, I check twice to make sure I wasn’t in a Flat Earther thread.
 
People also lie. That's also a fact, do you need some data to believe it?
But why is this what you choose to not believe people on? People lie about everything. Why is it any different than someone saying "I don't drink but I tried it once or twice in the past"? The drug being different doesn't make the claim or the believably of the claim any different. If anything, the alcohol one should be harder to believe given how common and easily accessible it is.
 
This is crazy. I can’t even imagine doing cocaine as a working adult. Do tell, OP.
I actually can't image other folks doing cocaine. At least in Berlin it's all high dosed MDMA if you want to party and cocaine is used more intensively by working people, especially in the fashion sector. I was once told that it swept over from France, where the use of coke is allegedly on par with cannabis.
 
But why is this what you choose to not believe people on? People lie about everything. Why is it any different than someone saying "I don't drink but I tried it once or twice in the past"?
1. I'm not the only one saying this 2. I'm not going to talk my personal experiences 3. I think drugs are horse shit in any capacity outside of approved medical use.

Full disclosure I won't see your response.
 
Every once in a while I read a thread on here that reminds me just how out of touch a lot of you are. Its very refreshing
 
To the people who have never seen coke at a party before: your responses ITT are precisely why the people with coke at the parties you went to avoided you, lol.
... Are you saying that people who don't do drugs aren't part of the 'cool kids'? What exactly is your angle here?
 
1. I'm not the only one saying this 2. I'm not going to talk my personal experiences 3. I think drugs are horse shit in any capacity outside of approved medical use.

Full disclosure I won't see your response.
So you can't explain why it's different. Should have just said that at the start. I'm not even sure why this discussion warrants being put on ignore, I'm just asking you to explain why you hold such a weird attitude towards this.
 
We live in Los Angeles and she ended up at a party with some celebrities and felt like it was too good of a story to pass up on so she joined in on it. It was pretty wild night so partially I’m kind of not upset it happened but didn’t realize this was going to happen so now facing the consequences. You reap what you sow I guess.
Atleast you're being accountable for your actions which is more than most people these days. If she gets away, lesson learned. If not, harsher lesson learned. Good luck.
 
... Are you saying that people who don't do drugs aren't part of the 'cool kids'? What exactly is your angle here?
Pretty sure that’s what they’re saying and I won’t stand for it.

OP’s wife could have murdered people on an insane coke fueled dizzy fit and everyone thinks it’s a big joke.
 
Just because something is common doesn't mean it's ok. Illegal drug use is illegal drug use. I guess that statement is controversial?
Something being illegal doesn't mean it's bad though. Coke is no worse than alcohol but I doubt people would be as preachy if it was a thread about drinking.
 

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Just because something is common doesn't mean it's ok. Illegal drug use is illegal drug use. I guess that statement is controversial?
About as controversial as saying "people who don't want to be judged stay away from judgemental people" but hey that didn't stop you from being offended.
 
Just because something is common doesn't mean it's ok. Illegal drug use is illegal drug use. I guess that statement is controversial?
It's not controversial at all and I think is kind of exactly the point Krejlooc was making in the post you quoted. A lot of people DON'T think it's okay, so if you're the guy at the party who's holding, you're going to be selective about who you let know about it.

He was just pointing out it's obvious which side of that selection a lot of the posters ITT would fall on.
 
Yes. Is that strange? Why wouldn't there be judgement when someone is using illegal drugs?
People were (and are) judged for smoking pot because it was illegal, but because people pushed back against that and encouraged lawmakers to adopt evidence-based policy, it’s no longer illegal where I live, and will in fact be sold directly to people by government-owned agencies. Go figure huh, that government used to lock people up over it.

I’m of the opinion that all drugs should be decriminalized, which is to say that I think arresting people solely for drug consumption is cruel, unjust, and morally wrong. Outside of concerns regarding production and distribution, which can involve dangerous criminal elements which could be mitigated by sensible drug policy, it’s primarily a health issue. It doesn’t sound like OP’s wife has a drug problem and her only error of judgement was doing that where drug tests are done as part of a job application process, but it’s certainly cleared her system since then so she’ll likely be fine unless it shows up in her hair, so I don’t even think there’s any reason at all to pass judgement on anyone, especially people we don’t know. It’s not right.
 
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this thread is nuts. barack obama wrote about doing coke in his autobiography, for heaven's sake!

it is not an underground thing only done by white bitcoin millionaires with a death wish. it's everywhere except apparently the parties that people ITT go to. no reason at all to disbelieve OP's post, especially since he lives in LA.
 
People have parties and sometimes there are lines of coke. It happens.
If you're not into drugs you don't do a few lines all of a sudden.

Two options:

a) OP is lying
b) OP and the wife are cheapskates and only do drugs when other people are buying (in Spain we call them "buscatiros" or "comebolsas")
 
Neither of us are really into drugs and can’t find definitive answers on this so could use some help. My wife recently took a job, accepted, put in her two weeks at the old place and was all set to go and last minute are throwing a drug test on her. We live in California so from my understanding weed doesn’t matter (she doesn’t smoke it anyway) but it would test other things. On lapsed judgement she did a couple lines of cocaine about a month ago... how screwed is she? From what I can tell hair would still bring this up but how likely are hair drug tests? I had done a test for a job before it was just urine.

Any ideas?

................what?
 
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